If I don’t do it and say it then I’m not dealing with me in the true light of ‘project me’. Yesterday I had a gorgeous blogged planned and when my very special and innocent friend, Irvin Sammons, sent the photographs to me I fell apart. I ended up simply posting my Christmas Country song for the day and then scurrying off to bed. Continue reading
So there’s thing guy who has been chatting to me for a few days.
I’ve decided that it’s time I find out the collective way that men think even though ‘project me’ is about doing it my way anyway.
Anyway, back to the guy. Continue reading
Firstly, my Greggie is sick and my natural mothering instincts are to molly coddle him and make sure that he does all the things within the collective to make sure he gets better. That would just be totally dumb considering we both know that he didn’t ‘catch’ flu and that manifested if from whatever is going on in that gorgeous physical body of his. So there’s no stopping him from doing anything he doesn’t want to do and the battle was won at about lunch time when I left him in capable hands of a dear friend and toddled on home. Continue reading
(This one’s got adult content guys, you have been warned!)
It’s hard to imagine that you can have an extremely eventful day without even getting out of bed.
I took the day off from going into the office for a number of reasons. The last of them was actually the greatest of all because I had no idea today would be so freaking cold. While the rest of South Africa was doubling up on jerseys and wrapping scarves around themselves to keep warm, I literally stayed in bed all day. Continue reading
It’s freezing cold and seems to only be getting colder. I’m a bit of a ninny in the cold but that’s not the point of the story. It’s more about my tattoo that’s been hidden behind jerseys and jackets for ages now. I love it! I hear that lots of people have a moment of regret after they have their tattoos. Some even panic that they’ve made a major mistake … not me … I adore my goddess. Continue reading
Your eyes do not deceive you. I am blogging twice in one night and all in desperate need to keep to my self inflicted promise of blogging daily. I know that I could change that at any time, but the crazy things is that not one part of me wants to. I love blogging daily for so many reason … but something happened on day 191.
I meditate in the mornings and my mediations are as unique and strange as I am. If I had to compare myself to others who meditate I might conclude that someone in the equation is a little crazy. I don’t watch my mind and I don’t try to still it either. I don’t listen to guided visualisation or sit in a meditation position. Continue reading
Never combine a broken heart with the finale of FlashFoward and the penultimate Grays Anatomy. It’s going to lead to uncontrollable crying and drinking sherry from a wine glass. Continue reading
I studied anatomy when I decided that being a massage therapist was the in thing many years ago and of all the things that I ever wanted answered was where did tears come from?
Not the anatomy of the tear duct and how it flowed, but how we knew when to cry. What happened in the brain that said to the duct to do it’s thing and shed forth a tear. I googled and lo and behold it was all very anatomical, but it still never satisfied my awe of my ability to just burst into tears and the mind, body, soul and tear ducts all did their thing simultaneously. Continue reading
It’s halfway through Monday morning and I’m all done with my weekly meeting and trying to remember the one thing that I knew I had to do before my day got underway.
I ran through my to do list a few times and checked my phone … because I didn’t have the best night’s sleep so I kept putting to do notes into the mobile between the hours of midnight and 4am. Nope … all of those things were on the list of things to do today.
What the hell was I forgetting? Continue reading





















