I’m definately waking up more alive and refreshed after going to sleep before midnight, now working into the late hours and switching off the brain for a while. The stats have gone a bit to the dogs since the change in plans, but I’m have to remember that focusing on rankings for ‘project me’ is not goalless at all. I have other blogs (launching soon … hold onto your pants) and projects that I can be stat and ranking driven with. Continue reading
Can you imagine having a naturally mothering nature?
Let me tell you how it goes … I can’t be sick, ask for help or be dependent on anyone. Everyone needs me and I can’t let anyone down. That’s a hell of a load to take on for a chick who decided not to be a mother. What’s the point … I may as well have just had kids if I was going to be the martyr mother anyway!
However, I had my realisations this weekend and took note of how emotional I got every time I had to ask for help. Continue reading
I have such a special friend of mine who’s in her early 50′s and whenever we have our coffee and catch up she always stares at me in amazement when I tell her that “I met him online and I went on a date with him after meeting online! Oh … and I did a little naughty cyber chat with him online …. hmmmm!!” And she’s horrified … but like jaw dropping … I need to climb back into the time machine and save my precious friend, Jodene, from this alien world of dating and relating.
She truly thinks there’s something so not right in the world of dating, today!! Continue reading


















