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Literally, it’s the hottest day in October in recorded history. If I’m exaggerating then it’s worth it because, damn, it’s hot!! It was sitting at around 36 degree (Celsius) today and all a girl want to do is get her bra off. Of course I left it lying on the bed so the estate agent had to call me to hide it before the potential buys spotted it, but there’s a lesson in that for me.

I’ve just come off a much longer than expected radio interview with Kieno Kammes on Talk Radio 702. It’s been on my vision board to be on that radio station and once again I’m reminded that I can set out and achieve anything I want to.

The truth is that just 20 minutes before I went on air I had a serious heart to heart with Greggie about the direction of my blog and what my dearest friend has seen slowly begin to happen.
He sees old patterns. He sees the pattern of making my life (and my blog) too much about other people. When I do that, I can’t blog properly because I’m too entwined in other people’s lives and I don’t want to break their trust by sharing their stories, but the truth is that my days have been consumed with other people’s issues.

It’s not for me to reveal their laundry for passers by, but it is for me to reveal mine because that is what I set out to do when ‘project me’ was born. It certainly turns up the heat a notch because I have to figure out a way to get back on ‘project me’ … and make my story about me! Live my life for me and consume myself with me first before I lose myself in anyone else.

Tonight I was reminded just how powerful my story is and just how much this blog has the potential to touch people’s lives. It was the wake up call I needed to remind myself about that purpose and not that goal.

Honestly, I am so detached from my own story at the moment that I wouldn’t know what to begin to tell you, so I’m going to go and tackle the heat, hoping it doesn’t keep me up all night. I’ll tackle the other kinds of heat in the morning … sizzle!



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

With DJ Fresh at the #TBD

It’s another awesome day in Cape Town and I’m thrilled to be sitting indoors and avoiding being blown away by a wind that this Jozi girl seriously is not used to. I’m clinging to my handbag that is big enough to fit a laptop into and wondering if it’s going to pick up speed and carry me away. I hear the weather in Jozi is no better and now I’m beginning to understand why there is so much back and forth complaining about who moans more about the weather. At this point, the competition is stiff between Jozi and Cape Town.

It’s one thing to be blown away by a gust of wind, but another by the overwhelming things that are beginning to happen with ‘project me’ on a personal level and with the blog. We all know that when something very exciting happens I immediately want to cry and the past few days have been filled with moments like that.

I began blogging because a movie inspired me to, but more than that, I wanted to show people that it is possible to live in truth, integrity and to make dreams a reality even when I wasn’t sure if it were truly possible myself. The whole point of being goalless but purposeful is proved more and more each day because where I thought I would be and where I am are world apart. Honestly, I’m much happier with where I am than where I dreamed of being. The purpose hasn’t changed at all and my voice is being heard while I prove that what we teach through Lifeology can be achieved.

Yes, I’m still freaking out about money, but hanging onto those dreams through financial pressure might be the greatest lesson of all. Putting all financial drama aside, I have to say that I think I have had the most mind blowing couple of days where the power of social networking takes my breath away.

It was an honour to be involved in the Twitter Blanket Drive in Jozi and that is getting a special blog after a few more incredible blanket donations are complete. More than that, I couldn’t believe how many people read my blog and were following me on Twitter. It might not seem like a big thing, but people aren’t great at commenting on blogs and sometimes I feel as though it might be sitting in a studio at a radio station.  You never quite know who is listening and I’m sure every DJ has at least one moment of feeling as though they are talking to themselves.

I had a few people who wanted to meet me and in return there are always going to be people that I want to meet in exchange. I had those moments too. I Tweet and blog because I love it and I chat to people who inspire and motivate me, so it’s mind blowing to finally acknowledge that I have that impact on the world.

My little milestone was being followed back by DJ Fresh. Not because I’m a groupie, but because I have plans to get as many people sharing and living their ‘project me’ story that an awesomely powerful voice sure will get a little extra wind in my sail. There are celebs and then there are those who I believe do things from the heart. I have started to wonder whether people will think I have any hidden motives besides just spreading the power of ‘project me’. I guess it goes with the territory, but it was refreshing to see a man with such a following and the most down to earth spirit … I needed that! Now to get Fresh to tell his ‘project me’ story for us and trust me, I’m working on that.
The hugest thank you goes to Fred Felton, who I met on Twitter and feel as though we have been friends for years. Fred also did a blog post on the Twitter Blanket Drive and the power of social networking and I got a mention that was so good for the esteem.

I can’t believe what Cape Town has been like. Greggie and I arrived here with an empty calendar and the determination to make this trip as productive as possible … and wow it has been.
All through the power of Twitter and Facebook, we have had meetings and exciting things happen. Business opportunities have sprung from a Tweet and no one has to whip out their diaries and only see you in a week’s time. I’m loving the energy of Cape Town and am grateful that I don’t think I would cope with the wind or I might have moments of not wanting to go home.

Of all the wind sailing moments, mine came this morning when ‘project me’ stats did something I have been waiting for since about November last year. I had one day where my daily visits hit about 810 and I thought they would just keep climbing with ease, but they settled into around the 650 per day figures. I always stress when I am away from my laptop and am only learning that I don’t have to retweet my posts like a nut, because people are finally reading my blog because they want to. Today I woke up to 1068 visits for yesterday and I can’t begin to tell you how excited I am.

I never started blogging for any of this. I started it because I wasn’t finding that I could stick to what I was teaching and when I watched Julie and Julia I had a brainwave. Never did I think that Social Networking would become an avenue of my career … so I hope you aren’t thinking about where you are going, but are focusing on why you are choosing what you are at this very moment. The reason should be no more than making sure you are having fun, living in your truth and with purpose!



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

Well here I am, one whole year later, and I can’t say that my life is anywhere that I had imagined or hoped it would be. The imagined part is better than I could have ever dreamed, but the hoped seems to be just as far off as ever. It took me years to even begin to master the art of ‘project me’ and I step into the second year of my much more conscious and purposeful journey, I feel that I am in for one hell of a ride.

Okay, I don’t feel it, I know it! Continue reading

I can’t believe that this all began a year ago. More than that, I can’t believe how much I have changed and grown in one year and I can’t believe that it has all been documented and my story is out there. Only once have I ever gone back and ready any of the past entries and for some reason I don’t think I will do that for a good few years. Don’t ask me why, it’s just a feeling.

Considering that I live my life goallessly but filled with purpose, I’m not one of those girls who makes new year’s resolutions. I do, however, do a little maths and get a better understanding of the year ahead. I don’t know if I’ve ever shared with you that I’m a numerologist? Continue reading

I love the irony. On the night that I intend to enthusiastically blog about ‘project me’ and the future plans as it grows from strength to strength – well isn’t that the night that I have internet trouble, my computer is freezing and wordpress is denying me access.

I’m doing my best to maintain the enthusiasm but the blogging gremlins are out to ruin my fun. Go away gremlins!

So my day took an interesting turn. Continue reading

For the first time ever I wrote an entire blog entry and deleted it. Why? Because it sounded like an agony aunt column and I didn’t have an agony aunt day.
Okay, some people might call it a little loopy, but I’m sure I’m not the only person who spends their day talking to themselves. Continue reading

It’s not only me freaking out about this questions. Can you believe that it’s been googled 53 million times. I kid you not … here’s proof: When is it going to rain?

Facebook and Twitter statuses have been teasing and taunting me all freaking day and the worst part is that some people in different parts of Joburg were boasting about dancing in the rain. I’m the dancing in the rain girl. Continue reading

Damn my patriotism! Sometimes it’s not all that it’s cut out to be when something runs through your veins and is as much a part of your DNA as the essence of your being.

I’ve had one of those days where I’ve dealt with all the things that run through my veins but frustrate the living daylights out of me. Continue reading

(This one’s got adult content guys, you have been warned!)

It’s hard to imagine that you can have an extremely eventful day without even getting out of bed.
I took the day off from going into the office for a number of reasons. The last of them was actually the greatest of all because I had no idea today would be so freaking cold. While the rest of South Africa was doubling up on jerseys and wrapping scarves around themselves to keep warm, I literally stayed in bed all day. Continue reading

It’s freezing cold and seems to only be getting colder. I’m a bit of a ninny in the cold but that’s not the point of the story. It’s more about my tattoo that’s been hidden behind jerseys and jackets for ages now. I love it! I hear that lots of people have a moment of regret after they have their tattoos. Some even panic that they’ve made a major mistake … not me … I adore my goddess. Continue reading

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