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Your Project Me Story

After successfully attempting to break the Guinness World Record (although not formerly recognized – long story which he’ll explain over coffee if you like) for the longest broadcast by an individual (125 hours) in September 2006, Rob walked into the Heart 104.9FM offices in Cape Town to enquire about a vacation internship and instead was offered the Weekend Breakfast show.

By December 2007 Rob had also held the position of Afternoon Drive show Producer, making Heart 104.9FM his home 7 days a week. Rob had bigger plans though… Soon came the offer from South Africa’s number one Top 40 Commercial Youth Station 5FM. The move to Johannesburg also saw Rob complete a year stint at Super Sport Blitz as a sport journalist, that unfortunately came to an end due to his demanding radio career.

Having started on 5FM’s weekend afternoon slot Rob has gone on to host the flagship 5FM Top 40 and has now become the king of nighttime radio with The Rob Vember Show airing Monday-Thursday 19:00-22:00 for which he won the 2011 MTN Radio Award for ‘Best Night-Time Presenter’ Rob has also been involved with The Chaeli Campaign since 2007. Rob has since faced his biggest physical challenge by cycling the Cape Argus Pick ‘n Pay Cycle not once but twice in aid of the organization. Since his involvement with the campaign Rob has become the official Patron of the NGO.

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Rob tells his Project Me Story:

What is your definition of happiness?
Happiness is so hard to encapsulate  as ultimately it relates to a truth that only you can experience and no words can describe. It truly is a ‘feeling’ that is experienced differently by each of us. I believe it is that silent solitary moment where nothing else matters but being. Acknowledging that you are here, you are present, you are living. I don’t believe there’s a single greater appreciation.

If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
“I am here for a reason” – then spend as much time as possible trying to figure out what the reason is.

We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
I’m pretty sure there’s a few people I could put on that list but I’m not sure that I agree with the premis of the question.  You are nothing without self belief and self worth. Perhaps I have both because I have people who believe in me but you are nothing unless you believe in yourself.

What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
We are not alone. We do not exist separately.  We are connected and should strive to live accordingly.

Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
I’m not sure that I’ve had that moment yet. It is something I still grapple with. I’ve achieved quite a bit at different stages of my life, each with its challenges but I’m not sure that I can as yet say categorically that those achievements came without doubt. I am a sceptic and cynic by nature after all.

What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
I’ve always dreamed of being on my current career path but there’s still so much more in my dream space. I’d still love to enter the world of television in a big way. There’s really so many dreams scattered all over my brain that its difficult to put on paper.

When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
I can always go home! Everyone needs that one place where they’re always welcome.

We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
Still searching… (see question 2)

How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
The potential pain can only last for so long then it too shall pass. If you want something bad enough you’ll get over the fear and take the leap. If your fear outweighs your ‘want’ then you don’t want it enough.

What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
Back to question 4: somewhere in the hustle & bustle we’ve lost our will and need to coexist. Greed is the deadly sin that is doing us the most damage. If only we realised that we are mere mortals part of a much greater system.

Rob Vember supports: The Chaeli Campaign

The Chaeli Campaign was founded on 6 August 2004 by five girls between the ages of 6 and 12. Chaeli Mycroft, her sister (Erin) and lifelong friends, the Terry sisters (Tarryn, Justine and Chelsea) started The Chaeli Campaign to raise R20 000 for Chaeli’s motorised wheelchair. They managed to do this in 7 weeks by selling cards with Erin & Chaeli’s artwork on them and Sunshine Pots (DIY miniature pot plants).

Although Chaeli is the face of The Chaeli Campaign the spirit on which this organisation is based is the teamwork that exists amongst our five founding members. Our mission now is to mobilise the minds and bodies of children with disabilities and to normalise society through advocacy and education programmes and events.

We run eight different programmes including providing custom-made assistive devices, therapies (physiotherapy, occupational therapy and communication facilitation) and also support special needs children in mainstream schools. The thread that runs through all our programmes and events is the importance of inclusion and diversity in society, based on this definition of disability:

Physical/intellectual impairment is self-evident and can be dealt with. Disability is created by the way in which society responds to the impairment.

Disability is, therefore, a behaviour and an attitude and although we are directly involved in impacting the lives of differently-abled children and their families, an equally important task is to invite able-bodied society to a greater awareness of the essential role that people with disabilities have to play in communities – teaching lessons that only they can teach.



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

Having chased a dream of being a fashion designer , Katie Mohamed’s academic background stems from Fashion Design to clients services and eventually Sales and Marketing. Modelling and Fashion shows proved to be part of an exciting journey into the media industry.

Having on air radio experience for a local radio stations in Durban, is where her love for broadcasting began. After years of experience praising the Public Broadcaster of assisting in being the driving force of gaining a wealth of knowledge within the media and broadcasting field. Katie has successfully expanded the SABC brands , within her field and has generated sales worth, widened the client base, achieved client retention and  being part of the positive relationship within the advertising trade. Sponsorships then became a driving force within her environments.

Realising the dream of being a talk show host was a highlight of 2010.  “No Reservations” was a chatty, honest and real show, delving onto issues and challenges we face on a regular basis, and having a group of friends talking and sharing their experiences. The response has been phenomenal and the girls will definitely be coming back for a bigger and better show.

Since taking on the new and exciting experience, Katie has now left the broadcaster and is now leveraging off her experience in taking the media and advertising industry  to fresher concepts, working on innovations for clients and creating 360” implementations for their objectives. Currently hosting and producing a cooking show called “ Food with friends” that is another authentic South African show .

A mother of 3 kids, she believes in constantly chasing her dreams and is driven by ensuring she will leave a legacy for them, following her instincts, that’s were true wisdom manifests itself.

As Oprah says ““I am a woman in process. I am trying like everybody else. I try to take every conflict, every experience and learn from it. Life is never dull!”

Katie tells her project me story:

What is your definition of happiness?
I used to think it was about things, but it’s also about experiences.
Material objects and money make life easier (don’t let people say it’s not about money!!!!) BUT in saying that I believe that you can only achieve happiness in being true to yourself, its finding that inner peace. Life and Life’s traumas can bring you down, but if you are at peace, you definitely can overcome most challenges. If you start achieving your goals as humans we seek of own ways of bliss and happiness and whichever it is, I try to find ways to reach my happiness destiny. I am fuelled by passion for everything I am committed to my family, my shows, my clients, my friends, and my home. It brings me peace which results in happiness.

If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
” I am not happy living someone else’s dream, I will live my own”

We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
I need ME to believe in ME. I take care of ME. I’m the best person that knows what’s best for me. I know if I believe in myself I have the power to make my dreams come true. I believe in myself and all that I can trust, love, act, plan and believe that I can achieve anything humanly possible. When I believe in myself I feel stronger, braver and smarter.

What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
Love- our right to give and receive love can never be taught. It is an emotion that just happens. The quality of love is more important than anything you can give or get as a human being. It’s the foundation of any relationship, your family, your partner, your job, your friends….

Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
You can only achieve anything for the moment. You can exist only in the present, so you can achieve anything only in the present moment. Goal setting is not to control the future, and it improves your present reality. I am constantly trying to achieve for the present and reality is the ultimate judge, so things change, surprises in between. I always loved public speaking, motivating people even if my life isn’t that perfect just helping. So I guess the “No Reservations” was part of my achievements that has taken me on a level that I can speak my mind thereby guiding and talking about real life experiences. So ultimate achievement might be a book… but who knows life throws you curveballs everyday…

What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
They’ve changed as well? When you a little girl you dream of the fairy tale, then YOU make decisions that change your dreams. You ultimately want to make your dreams, your destiny, but implement practical techniques, don’t let people fool you into believing the fairy tale. It can only happen the way reality allows you to, no matter how much you dream. Having said that I always dreamt of making a difference in society in what I do, so I will continue to persevere my passion for `Media and not allow the distractions and noise of life to crowd out my dreams.

When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
Get back to reality, what are the tangibles, how can we assess situations, how can we try and fix challenges. I remind myself that we are souls and that there is a divine power that we can tap into. Have faith in God, in which ever way.

We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
The ability to talk, to care about individuals, to go out of my way to help. So its reliability!

How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
When we let fear rule our lives we miss out on opportunities. We have a limited time on earth so if you build self- confidence, immediately you can handle fear. Remind myself that the past does not define my future.

What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
We’ve lost sight of being human!  Kindness, compassion, sympathy. Everything seems to become a commercial transaction. We’ve lost sight of forgiveness, if we can do that we can live.  We hide behind screens and phones. We’ve lost the art of being human and humane. The ability to achieve meaningful connections for the human spirit. Life is too short, we need to enjoy our days, laugh at every chance. We need to listen, love, speak, pray, share, trust and have the strength and courage to be human without being apologetic. We’ve lost our sense of conscienceless and awareness of elements around us.

Katie supports: The South African Ballet Theatre

The South African Ballet Theatre (SABT) presents the magical fairytale ‘The Sleeping Beauty’ at the Joburg Theatre from Friday September 30th to Sunday October 16th 2011.

Based on the original choreography by Marius Petipa, and set to Pytor Tchaikovsky’s sweeping score, this season will feature SABT stars such as Principal dancer Burnise Silvius, international guest artists Lily-Ann Bones, Daniel Convery and Australian Adam Thurlow who returns to SABT for his second guest appearance.

Also appearing in ‘The Sleeping Beauty’ are a host of surprise local celebrities in the roles of the King and Queen as well as members of the SABT Academy and SABT Development Schools.

The well – known fairy tale of the spell placed on Princess Aurora by the evil fairy Carabosse, is told in four acts with appearances by the Lilac Fairy, Puss in Boots, the Bluebird couple and of course, Little Red Riding Hood.

The season is accompanied by the Johannesburg Philharmonic Orchestra (except for performances on October 6th, 7th and 13th which are performed to a recorded score) under the baton of Sonja Bass. This season marks the first time that SABT works with a female conductor.

The production is suitable for ages three and up.

SABT is the country’s foremost professional ballet company and has established itself as a major player in the performing arts with impressive productions of classical ballets, new works by South African choreographers and collaborations across international boundaries. 2011 marks the Company’s tenth anniversary.

Bookings for ‘The Sleeping Beauty’ are through the Joburg Theatre on 0861 670 670 or www.joburgtheatre.com.

SABT management has endeavored to keep ticket prices for the 18 performances as low as possible with prices ranging from just R50 to R320. All tickets for the Sunday morning performances at 11h00 are R110.

For additional information please visit www.saballettheatre.co.za

 



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

Cito was born in Los Angeles, California on the 18th of July 1974 as Martin Rafael Otto. Most of his childhood was spent in a Hispanic Christian community in New York City. Both parents influenced Cito with their musical abilities – especially with the Spanish guitar. Up until his teenage years he acquired most of his singing experience through his church upbringing.

For missionary purposes his family immigrated to South Africa where Cito continued his high school education. His musical interests took over most of his attention. Cito started composing songs and music and was involved in several bands. When he left high school he joined a ten-piece classic R&B outfit called Heart & Soul as bassist. A year later he left the band and started his own rock band called Moonchild. He then joined 8 Legged Groove Machine, a funk rock band, as lead vocalist.

In 1996 WONDERboom was conceived. Headlining festivals and releasing chart-topping hits, WONDERboom’s fan base grew. They were nominated five times for Best Rock album at the SAMA awards. In 2004 Wonderboom won Best South African Rock Band for the Global Battle of the Bands and went on to achieve second Best Rock Band in the World at the finals in London. WONDERboom have just released their eighth album, The Automatic Shuffle.

In 2004, Cito formed an acoustic side project called Absinthè with Sugardrive frontman Paul E Flynn and best friend, Paulo Rego. Debut album, a Rendezvous at Nirvana was released in December, 2010.

In 2006, Cito was cast for the role of Jesus of Nazareth in the Pieter Toerien production of Jesus Christ Superstar, directed by Paul W Griffin. The production ran for 20 weeks in SA, with Cito singing at every performance. A bigger production of JCS toured Greece & Korea in 2007 and was received with great appreciation. Unsurprisingly, Cito was nominated for a Naledi Award as Best Newcomer in the South African theatre 2007. In 2008, the musical theatre stage saw Cito perform a lead role again as Frederick Trumper with Pieter Toerien’s new production of Chess, The Musical which boasted full houses throughout the run. Due to popular demand, JCS was brought back to the SA stage in 2010 with Cito’s reprise of the lead role. Again, receiving rave reviews.

Cito is also the founder of Peace Starts, an independent, non-profit, event organization that promotes the International Day of Peace, a United Nations’ commemorated day dedicated to peace, which falls on the 21st of September. Peace Starts is endorsed by Peace One Day and the International Day of Peace.

He also runs his own recording studio where he composes, produces and does sound design for radio and TV and is currently working on his first solo album.

Cito’s project me story:

What is your definition of happiness?
Performing on stage, having a sense of purpose and dancing…

If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
I love you..,.

We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
We should believe in ourselves but sometimes we don’t. it’s wonderful when that someone who knows you really well believes in you. That person is my wife, Linda.

What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
Peace.

Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
Auditioning for the lead role in Jesus Christ Superstar, with no training or preparation for what was thrown at me.

What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
I’ve always dreamed of running an independent alternative rock/dance radio station and owning my own coffee shop. Haven’t achieved either… YET!

When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
I have no control.

We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
My voice is probably the most unique thing I am aware of.

How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
It may sound obvious but confrontation is the only way. There’s a serious power in overcoming a fear that debilitates you. It’s liberating.

What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
The value of life and the need for each other.

Cito’s story in support of: Peace Starts

 Join a host of leading South African bands, artists and celebrities to show your support for peace in South Africa at the “Peace Starts 2011” Concert taking place on Saturday, 24th September at Crawford College,
Benmore, Sandton and enjoy a jam-packed rocking concert too.

The line up will include well known South African bands and artists such as, The Graeme Watkins Project, WONDERboom, Kwesta, Shugasmakx, Slikour, Flash Republic, Josie Field, Paul E Flynn, RedButton, Sifiso, The Honey Droppers and more. All of these artists, as well as all of the people that have put the event together, have given of their time and talent free of charge, and all have the same belief; that each and every one of us have the responsibility to play an active role in bringing about the harmony we desire in our community.

Entrance is free to the Peace Starts 2011 event; all you need to do is register on www.peacestarts.co.za. A unique code will be mailed to you, which then must be presented at the entrance.

We encourage you to bring picnic baskets with your own refreshments, food (to avoid queues at the food outlets), blankets and sun protection as the concert will keep you rocking till sunset.

Food and drinks will also be available from various fast food outlets, but no alcohol will be sold (so please bring your own). Security will be present and will not allow weapons, drinking of alcohol for under 18 years of age or unruly behaviour.



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

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Gary Max Wright was born in Liverpool and started dancing at the age of Ten in a local dance school. He trained in all styles of dance such as Disco, Freestyle, Jazz, Ballet, Ballroom and Latin American.

He spent much of his spare time working hard, training and competing. With much support from his dance teacher Margaret Redmond he quickly established himself as one of the top Ballroom and Latin American Junior Dancers in England which gained him a place representing England in the Great British Junior Team at the British Open to the World Championships held in the famous Tower Ballroom, Blackpool.

Gary then went on to represent England in Junior Ballroom, Latin and 10 Dance World Championships all in the same year. He has also visited many other World Championships events in places such as Turin, Moscow, Prague, Italy, Holland, Sweden, America and Singapore where he gained 7th place representing England in the World Youth IDSF Championships.

Gary has also won the British National under 21 Championships, UK closed under 21 Championships, Celtic classic Amateur team match, runner up in the International under 21 Championships, Celtic classic under 21 Championships 2nd place in the World in the Dutch Open Championships in Holland and another of his successful results include being placed 7th in the British Open under 21 championships in Blackpool Winter Gardens which is the biggest competition in the world after dancing with his partner Victoria Burke for 2 weeks. He has also won and been a finalist in many more Youth and Amateur National and International Competitions.

2006 saw him taking part in the highly acclaimed production of Simply Ballroom with Lionel Blair were he did an extensive tour in the UK and also South Africa, Dubai followed by Gary making his first West End debut at the Theatre Royal Drury Lane . He then topped off his amazing year by performing in the Qdos pantomime, Cinderella in Hull. This was one of the best-selling pantomimes Hull New Theatre has seen to date. Not only did he get a chance to work with the Chuckle Brothers but he also understudied one of the Main roles.

In 2007 and 2008 Gary returned back to Simply Ballroom to do yet again a very successful tour which also included two American tours which gave him the opportunity to work with the legendary Miss Debbie Reynolds.

2009 saw him appearing in ‘Cheek to Cheek’ with Anton du Beke and Erin Boag in the amazing London Coliseum and then immediately followed by a brand new Latin American Show called ‘Latin Fever’ with Strictly Come Dancing stars Darren Bennet and Lilia Kopylova at the Peacock Theatre London.

2010 Gary also Performed on Broadway with the hugely successful Dance Show Burn The Floor followed by London’s West-End at the Shaftesbury Theatre in 2011.

On a personal note: Gary, it’s been a joy spending inspirational moments with you and watching the passion with which you dance and live. I wish you health and happiness with each move you make and hope we keep in touch because I’m not done watching you dance yet! Best of luck for opening night at Perth tonight and for the rest of the Burn the Floor tour.
Thank you for sharing your project me story with myself and my readers. You are an inspiration for anyone who has the power to dream:

What is your definition of happiness?
Happiness for me is having a loving Family and Friends who are always there for you. As long as i have that I’ll always be Happy. It’s not about materialistic things at all.

If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
Be Happy with yourself! PMA Positive,Mental,Attitude that’s a saying me and my Friend on Tour say to ourselves if we feel a little low. Everyone from time to time gets a little down you just have to turn that Frown upside down ha ha!

We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
For me it’s my Family i have such a good Relationship especially with my Mum and Nan and as long as they believe in me that’s all that matters. They believed in me when i first started to Dance at 10 years of age and now look at me.

What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
I believe every person has different qualities that’s what makes people special and the way you are brought up tends to mould people into what they are. For example Different experiences in life. For me i have experienced things from a Young age i was travelling on a plane at 11 on my own for my Dancing and had to grow up a little quicker than others my Age.

Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
I think because I’ve Danced since i was 10 in Competitions in Latin and Ballroom and been very successful i kinda grew in Confidence and then by the Time i was 21 i made practically every U21 Latin American Top 10 so that’s when i thought if I’m being placed in the Top 10 in the entire World the Sky is my limit and now I’ve Danced on Broadway and London’s West-End. And it still isn’t finished ;-)

What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
This might seem kind of silly but i wasn’t one of those Kids who dreamt of being something… I have taken Life as it comes i think I’m very laid back. Like i said i would never have Dreamt of performing on Broadway and West-End, but something i would love to do is appear on Strictly Come Dancing in England aka in South Africa as (Dancing With The Stars) At the moment though I’m loving my Burn The Floor adventures for me this Show is the best Dance Show out there and i love everything about it. As long as my Body lets me I’ll do this!!!

When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
Easy question! That I have the best Family and Friends back in Liverpool who will always be there for me.

We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
I hope that mine is bringing pleasure to people who watch me Dance!

How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
I think the biggest thing for me is that i miss all my Family and Friends so much back at Home, but i know that as long as I’m Happy they will be Happy too. The other thing that kind of scares me is Injury’s because what i do is very demanding  on my body and one serious injury it could all be over. You have to take care of yourself so much and you know more than anyone your own body.

What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
Well you know at the moment being from England we have had all these Riots. I’ve been so disappointed in reading or seeing on the News what’s going on because some people just don’t care about anybody else or who they hurt along the way. There will always be issues in the World its how we deal with them is what is important.



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

I can’t believe it’s been 8 weeks and I’m sure by now most people will have stories of having lost a good fortune of weight but I don’t feel as though I’ve lost any. I can only imagine that there are going to be times when I am going to be mighty frustrated and pissed off with myself, so that’s going to be an interesting journey if I don’t start doing something different.

I feels as though  I want to blame a thing or two for not keeping myself on the straight and narrow, but the truth is I started ‘project body’ because I knew that if I wasn’t accountable to something or someone, I just wouldn’t do it.

How’s the water aerobics? Well, it’s happening in spurts. I’m trying to get myself more focused on getting to gym and the combination of icy cold mornings, having to leave Mr Unexpected (that’s only one morning a week but it feels like hell) and making sure my diary is organised to not schedule something in the way of my gym time.
Greggie reminded me of a very important Lifeology and therefore ‘project me/body’ lesson … if it’s not fun then something’s not right? I’m now on the journey of finding the ‘hook’ that keeps me having fun during the water aerobics because I really do hate training that much. I never wanted to be this person who had to force myself to do anything … but it’s me and it’s real and if I can’t find water aerobics fun (because everyone said I would be hooked ages ago) then I might be in trouble.

How’s eating going? Well, I could be healthier! I’m still hanging onto the gratitude that I have for the SlimLab tablets that keep my appetite under control. At least I’m not eating a horse at each sitting, but that counting calories thing needs attention. I can’t believe I’ve been single for well over a decade and now that I’m trying to focus on just feeding me, I have to worry about feeding Mr Unexpected too. I don’t know how to change my diet without controlling what he eats. Yes, we both need to be healthier and Greggie keeps reminding me that I managed to make dietary changes that were so subtle yet so healthy. Of course I would attract a man who also does the comfort food eating thing … so this journey is still a very interesting one.

Water?
Well that all depends on what kind of water you are talking about. Does tea count? Does green tea count? How much flavoured water are we talking? I’m a little better in summer but I hate it during winter … it’s the combination of drinking cold water when I’m cold and then needing to pull down my pants and sit on a cold toilet seat that takes all the fun out of being healthy.

Mr Unexpected has highlighted my own body issues because I’m concerned that he never drinks plain water, yet I can’t say the same for myself. Why do people make unhealthy things in the first place? Why take something as natural and perfectly healthy for us and then ruin it with loads of sugar, sodium and a whole lot of crap that hurts our bodies? (That’s me taking out my frustrations … )

I don’t know the upcoming week holds and if I will be sitting here this time next week saying the same old thing … or maybe I will have gone to my 3 classes of water aerobics this week. I will have drank my 2 liters or water per day. I will have cooked a healthy meal of steamed veggies and grilled chicken … and water will be helping me be friend with my body, one precious drop at a time.



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

From Slovenia, Aljaž Škorjanec started dancing at age five. Nineteen times Slovenian champion in ballroom, latin and 10 dance. He has successfully representing Slovenia in world Latin and Ballroom Dance championships. He has appeared in Slovenian dancing with the stars.  Joined Burn the Floor in Australia in 2010, and has toured 2011 USA national tour.

Aljaž would like to thank to everyone who has supported him especially to his family.

About Burn the Floor:
The ballroom dancing the world recognizes today is competitive ballroom dance, sometimes known as dancesport. It is comprised of ten dances, which can all be danced in “closed ballroom” hold. The style danced in BURN THE FLOOR is called “international style” and has been danced in competition since 1920. International style ballroom dance consists of ten dances, split into five Latin American dances and five ballroom dances (standard). Each BURN THE FLOOR dancer has spent a lifetime training to compete against other dance couples. This show allows the dancers to demonstrate their love and passion for their art.

On a personal note:
I am so blessed to have shared very special moments with the cast of Burn the Floor, thanks to the Joburg Theatre. From opening night to a dance-off with some brave SA celebs and a Tweetup in the wings. Aljaž, I can see what you mean about being  part of a family and feel the voice of each one of you echo through your interview. I know I speak for everyone who has had the joy and privilege of meeting you and your fellow dancers when I say that South Africa will never be the same again. You have shown us passion, commitment and the true meaning of turning talent into a living dream. Thank you for sharing your project me story … and for sitting next to me and making me feel like the luckiest girl in the world for a while *blush*.

Aljaž Škorjanec’s project me story:

What is your definition of happiness?
I am not sure if i know the definition of happiness, but when i wake up and look forward to the day ahead, i am at my happiest, and i have a smile on my face all day.    Quite simple really

If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
I can do it

We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
My family at home and my burn the floor family.   I am an extension of both these families, if i know they believe in me it is the best feeling, and it gives me a sense of belonging which gives me strength which in turn i am able to give back to my families… To be a part of a family is a warm feeling, a feeling of security.

What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
Talent…we all have it in some form , it just needs discovering and nurturing.

Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
I  haven’t had that moment as yet……if and when i do i will make sure you are the first one to know!

What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
I am still young, so my dreams are simple right now. My dream is to dance, travel the world. And eventually i want to achieve my long term goal of bring a successful grown up man. Before i joined burn the floor i was at medical school, so being a doctor is on the horizon.

When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
How fortunate i am. In my travels i see a lot of wonderful things, i also see a lot of people that have no ability to direct their destiny, that is very sad for m, and brings many things into perspective for me.

We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
Trying to give something that no-one has given before

How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
Prevention is better than cure is what i learn at medical school.    But i feel that one has to push out side of ones comfort zone, cross some boundries keep challenging yourself and see what is on the other side.  It gets easier each time you do it.  The tougher the journey the more elation you feel when you get to the destination.

What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
Unity…..i am doing an interview in south africa and i am a boy from slovenia working for an australian company….i don’t think the world has lost anything, perhaps sometimes just lost sight of it.

Project me day 571 was spent with the incredible dancers of Burn the Floor at the Joburg Theatre …. Here’s my story!



With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

Photograph by Aleksiei Lima

5FM’s Sasha Martinengo is the station’s longest-standing DJs with a fan following that spans many different age and ethnic groups. Right now, Sasha is living his greatest dream in the industry that he has devoted his life to: “5FM is unique. There is no other radio station in South Africa like it. It allows its DJs complete freedom of expression as well as the ability to develop themselves as individuals. I love it here and have done so since I started. I am very passionate about this station and about radio specifically.”

Sasha’s show has grown from strength to strength since its inception, with the added bonus of some extraordinary talent in the shape of Sasha’s on-air contributor and news reader Kim Schulze. “From a professional point of view I have found a young star in Kim. She really has terrific potential and I am very happy to have her on the team.”

It all began for ‘The Italian Stallion’ in 1994 when he started on the graveyard shift (01:00 to 04:00), which he did for two and a half years, finally filling in on late night radio  in October 1997.

“I’ve coached tennis, worked in a bank and in Virgin Records.   I even tried my hand at being an estate agent!” says Sasha of his days before radio. “A lot is said about DJs and how they get into radio. I was one of the lucky ones; my desire and passion to do this job outweighed anything else I was doing. I knocked on doors and eventually the door at 5FM opened for me. It has a lot to do with luck, and perhaps I am lucky sometimes.”

Sasha was the first ever DJ in South Africa to have his own website and the first to have an email account for listeners to interact with him while he was on-air. A major force in the world of F1 in South Africa, Sasha also had his own F1 website back in the late 1990’s but the work load got too much so he now issues a daily F1 blog. They weren’t called “blog’s” then, just “newsletters”…

In the “00’s” (naughties), Sasha’s profile grew with that of the station, which saw him play gigs all over the world as a 5FM ambassador. Having travelled to many F1 GP’s, Sasha is a household name in South Africa on the subject of Formula 1 and has been the anchor for F1 on Supersport since 2002. His love of radio and music has seen him constantly improve the ratings of all of his shows on 5FM.

Sasha released a further edition of Sasha’s Essential Hit Picks compilation at the beginning of 2011: so far, the first three compilations have sold close to 100 000 copies, demonstrating that Sasha knows exactly what tracks his listeners want to hear when they are not listening to the radio.

Sasha Martinengo’s Project Me Story:

What is your definition of happiness?
The 5 Minute board before a F1 Grand Prix

If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
This is going to be the best day of my life

We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
I believe in myself but I also rely on my family

What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
Compassion and humility

Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
Phew, I suppose my first ever radio show. I knew that I could do it professionaly

What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
I always wanted to present a TV show about Formula 1. I do that

When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
It could always be worse

We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
I offer a chance to smile on horrible days

How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
I am perhaps not assertive enough so that is how I deal with fear

What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
The art of conversation and patience

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Sasha’s charity infomation: Reach For A Dream

Reach For A Dream fulfils the dreams of children between the ages of 3 and 18 who have been diagnosed as having a life-threatening illness by a medical practitioner. We do not discriminate based on race, culture, financial status or any other factor.

Each child living with a life-threatening illness is given a chance to dream.

Reach For A Dream believes that no child should live without hope. Childhood can be the most magical phase of the human existence, filled with dreams, aspirations and most of all… fun!

For children who have been diagnosed as having a life-threatening illness, the magic of childhood may be lost in the emotional, physical and financial strain of dealing with their illness. Reach For A Dream tries to alleviate some of this strain (which often affects the whole family), by creating a different environment for the child – one that is not focused on her/ his illness. We would like our children to find their laughter again and therein find the strength to live beyond their illnesses.

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With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

It’s not easy being a cancer patient.  I know what you’re all thinking, and I know that I could be accused of being Captain Obvious, but just stay with me here.

Sure, there’s the worry.  Sure, there’s the pain.  Sure, there’s the trauma of surgery, chemotherapy, radiation therapy, and all of that.

Look there’s even the emotional and mental scarring that happens if, like me, you’re lucky enough to recover.  You know, the hit to your self-confidence, the reticence to take on life as before, even the desire to go hide under a rock and be left alone for the next few decades while you sort yourself out.

But one of the hardest aspects, and the part that I found most frustrating, is how do you deal with (and sometimes even take care of) the people around you – your family, your friends, your acquaintances, your doctors, your nurses, and even your social media community.

Why is that?  Well because no-one knows how to deal with you.  Your family and friends come close, because after all, they really care about you, and very quickly, they adapt to the shock and go straight into caring-about-you mode.  But some of the others are harder, and some really need your support.

As I said, the closest people do adapt, and it’s remarkable really because they’re the ones most affected.  I found myself worrying a lot about my parents, who are in their eighties – in fact my mother turned 80 four days before my first surgery, and we had a party planned for her, which we cancelled.  I was concerned for their well-being and for how they would be taking it having their 57-year-old son in hospital fighting for his life.  They came to visit me every day, and I really looked forward to it, but I had to keep assuring them that I was improving, and that the numbers were on the up, and yes, it was all right for my mother to get me a good cup of espresso from the hospital canteen, because I was afraid that the hospital kitchen’s crappy instant coffee would kill me before the cancer.

I was concerned about my children because…. well, because I’m the father of three daughters, and although they were already 29, 27, and 23, my job is to take care of them, and that was hard from a hospital bed.  I must admit though, that by about the 754th “chill out, Dad”, I finally did, and got that they’d be ok.

I wouldn’t have made it without my wife Helene, so of course I had to take care of her and make sure that she had both enough energy to handle everything and enough knowledge of all our affairs to “take care of all family business” (said in Vito Corleone’s voice).

But acquaintances!  These are people that aren’t quite close enough to be called your friends.  And although they aren’t actually distant enough to be called the rest of the world, their cancer conversations are similar.  They go something like this:

“Oh yeah.  Cancer.  My <insert relative or other person they know> had cancer last year.”  Fantastic!  I’m bracing myself now.

The story now takes one of two turns.  One is “Yes, they beat it, and they’re now doing great!”  Awesome!  Bully for them, I’m thinking.  They’re doing great and I’m in hospital fighting for my life.  The other one goes something like “Yes, they fought and fought…….. but they died.”  Oh!  Well shit a brick!!  That’s made my day!

(Here’s a tip for when you visit cancer patients.  THEY’RE NOT INTERESTED IN CANCER!!  Talk about politics, sports, films, books, your kids, their kids, the weather.  Anything but war stories about your other friends who’ve either beaten it or been beaten by it.)

And then there’s an awkward silence.  Because if their friend’s doing great, then they’re not sure how you feel about that, and if not, then they realise that they just totally dampened the mood.  So, then, being a great patient, and in fact an impatient patient, I wouldn’t want to spend any more time in awkward silence, and I’d want to take care of them.  What do you do?  You create the segue into the next conversation.  “Er… so… anyway, how’s work?  You’re looking good.  Have you lost weight?  Did you see the football game last week?, etc, etc…..”

The next group is the medical professionals.  You sit around (or lie around) a lot waiting for doctors to show up.  And when they do, they don’t stay long.  And if you happen to be asleep when they come, you might even almost miss them.  So you lie there, trying to stay awake, memorising the things you need to ask them – afraid you’ll forget the most important ones.  And then *poof* they’re gone, and you discover that you did forget that question, and now you’re concerned about its answer, and worried that you’ll forget the next time as well, and now being impatient because it could be 24 hours till the next time.

And you really – I mean really – want to take care of the nurses.  They’re your life-blood.  And one thing I realised very early on is that I needed to preserve their energy, their time, even their feelings.  I had some awesome nurses, and I am constantly amazed by these people and what they actually have to do for what seems like very little remuneration and recognition.  Now while I couldn’t remunerate them, I took it upon myself to recognise and acknowledge them for everything they did for me, as well as try to preserve their energy.  I especially loved the student nurses, who hadn’t been in the system long enough to be jaded by obnoxious and demanding patients (and I made sure that they knew that I wasn’t one of them).

And finally, there’s the social media community.  And this is something unusual.  I have become friends with a large number of people that I have met online – some of whom I may never ever meet in what’s colloquially known as RL, some of whom I have met and am quite close to, and some of whom I communicate with casually and irregularly via Twitter, Facebook, Blogging, and email.  And surprisingly (or not), this group of people is easy to deal with.  In fact, my biggest issues are “Gee I haven’t written a blog post for a while – I better get on to it” or “I hope I haven’t offended anyone with this tweet” or “I hope they like this status update”.

But you know what the good thing has been?  No matter how often or not I write, no matter how much I offend someone, no matter whether or not anyone likes my status update, someone would always show up saying something nice and giving me a good feeling about life.

Moshe’s blog: From the Mosh Pit

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With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

Sean Disney, Managing Director of Adventure Dynamics International, two times Everest summiteer and two times 7 summits climber. He is one of the world’s most experienced mountain guides and is a  MOUNTAIN MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER.  He has been leading expeditions for over 15 years. Sean is the first South African to complete the GRAND SLAM, skiing to the South Pole, North Pole and completing the Seven Summits.

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On a personal note: Sean, I can’t express how grateful I am for having had the chance to chat to you and be inspired by both our conversation and your answers to your project me story. I embarked on a big adventure of my own today and project body is underway. I thought about our conversation while in my first water aerobics session and I felt as though I was going to give up half way through. We all have our own mountains to climb and you have made it sound rewarding that it helped change my attitude and see me through. You are beyond and inspiration and I wish you many more mile and mountain peaks of happiness.

Here is Sean’s project me story:

What is your definition of happiness?
I have been blessed in all aspects of life. Happiness comes from within, being high on a mountain with a great view is when I am most happy and at peace.

If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
Live to the boundaries you set, do what you say, don’t let yourself down and be fair to others. Remember your most valuable things are not your house and car but your family, reputation, job and friends

We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
Everyone who has ever given me a fair break, and a chance to get ahead. An everyone who have put their lives in my hands.

What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
Innocence

Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
I have always thought I can do anything I want, but didn’t realise the potential I can still achieve

What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
I dreamed of climbing Everest once so I climbed it twice.

When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
Sort it out logically and systematically and deal with it sensibly

We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
Tales of adventure and you can live a unique life

How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
Fear is a good thing, it challenges and protects, someone without “fear” is dangerous to themselves and those around them – I confront fear.

What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
Man’s continual capitalistic greed, grabbing and wanting is weighing him down and making him lose sight of what really counts.

Sean Disney supports the Endangered Wildlife Trust

The EWT is a non-profit conservation organisation operating on-the-ground projects throughout Africa, with a particularly strong presence in southern Africa. We take a partnership approach and have constructive relationships with industry, government and communities, all for the conservation of our biodiversity.
The EWT’s structure allows for expertise to be developed in a particular area of conservation. However we have an overall conservation strategy for the organisation and our specialists meet regularly to ensure that this strategy is being followed. In this way we are able to provide holistic solutions to a large number of environmental problems, while still fulfilling the key niche of species protection.

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With courage, consciousness & a sense of humour

I was born, and raised by my Mom in Cape Town. In my early teens, I was a bit of a surfer boy, listening to Bob Marley and chasing girls. As I got a bit older I became more and more interested in music – especially heavier music. Eventually I sold my surfboard and took up guitar lessons instead. I formed a band with some friends from around the neighborhood. We were pretty bad.  We sounded like a cross between The Sex Pistols and some of the early grunge bands coming out of Seattle.

When I was about fifteen I was sent to live with my Dad in Johannesburg. Apparently I needed some discipline and a Father figure.  I guess the gory Iron Maiden posters and rebellious attitude were the main cause of this.  But I always did my own thing. I didn’t like being told what to do. I was in trouble with my teachers regularly. Even from a young age I knew I didn’t want to conform to society – get good grades, go to university, get a regular job! No thank you. I barely made it through each year of high school. All I wanted to do was come home and play my guitar, and one day be in a famous band. Maths! What do I need that for? This attitude didn’t go down well with my Dad. He’s a very successful engineer. He told me I needed something to fall back on. He wasn’t wrong, but I didn’t care. I had my dream and I was going to follow it no matter what!

After high school I went straight into the army. I was in the second last call-up for the old National Service. This was like my own personal hell. I hate being told what to do and what to think.  But I got through it and learned a few skills in the process. The experience did make me a better man. Not so much because of the discipline and general army stuff, but because it was such a huge challenge for me.  I truly believe I went in a boy and came out a man. It didn’t change my perspective on conformity to society. If anything I was more determined than ever to do things the way I wanted to do them.

I was out the army for about a week and I formed a band with my best mate. We found a singer and a drummer and set to work. Most of us worked more than one job at a time, to live and afford the equipment we needed. We played gigs all over Johannesburg. Entered battle of the bands wherever we could. Three of us worked at a bar at the old Randburg Waterfront. On Monday nights a guy called Sean Liebenberg played there. We became friends with him, and one night he invited us on stage to do an unplugged set during his break. While we were playing, Art and Brent from Just Jinger walked in. This was just after they became famous [1997]. They were blown away by our stuff and invited us to open for them at The Roxy in Melville. Talk about right time, right place. It was like a fast track to fame. Before you knew it we had a manager, were getting sponsors and getting booked all over town. Within a year we had three record companies offering us contracts. We chose Sony BMG, and set about recording the album.

Our first single “Starlight” made it into the top 20 on the 5FM Top 40. Our second single, ironically titled “Getting Stronger” made it to number 2. Dj Ian F said if it weren’t for U2’s “Beautiful Day”, we would have made it to number 1 that week.

We got loads of airplay, and did a supporting national tour for our album.  But, despite rave reviews and good exposure, there just wasn’t enough financial support to sustain it full time. There were nights our sound engineer went home with more money than us.  We were peaking at a time when DJ parties were more popular than watching live bands. I had to go back to part-time work to pay the bills.

I got a job working for a small independent Pro photo lab. I really got into photography at this point. I was even the bands official photographer, using tripods and timers to get the shots. I think, because of our financial struggles, the friendship between the band members became a bit strained. I was starting to fall out with the singer in a big way. We were both very stubborn, and wanted to do things differently. This included musical direction, and general business decisions. As he was the main songwriter, he got his way most of the time. This frustrated me. I don’t like being told what to do, especially when it concerned my future and my financial situation.

About one year after recording our album, I left the band with a very heavy heart. I was devastated that it had come to that. We had worked so long and hard, making huge sacrifices along the way. We were very good together, musically, but becoming bitter and resentful as friends. Still to this day, that was the hardest decision I’ve ever made. And I often regret it. If I were then, the person I am today, I would have fought harder to make it work. I would have found ways to keep our friendships strong. I was young then, and have learned a lot about myself, and life in general.

I have learned that the people in your life are the most important. All people. Even the ones I haven’t met yet. It’s the connections we make on this earth that make our lives special, that make us better people, and grow our businesses. I try to treat everyone I meet with respect and dignity, even when it’s not being given in return. Good manners and sincerity go a long way in making lasting friendships and strong business connections.

Today I run my own photography business. I mostly work in the corporate market, the one place I never wanted to be, growing up. I love my job. I meet new people every day. Go to new and exciting places, and get to see into the workings of all kinds of things I never though excised. I’m following a new dream now, one which has endless possibilities. I do miss the music though. The thrill of performing live, and the fun of jamming with friends. Who knows, maybe one day you will hear me play again.

Grannysmith’s website: www.grannysmith.co.za

My photography website: www.miketurner.co.za

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On a personal note:
Mike, we met through a Tweet that screamed of honesty, passion and a truth of who you are and now I’m thrilled to call you my friend. Thank you for sharing in #D500 with me and inviting me into your world of photography and live SA music. I know you have asked me a few times why I wanted you to do the project me interview and my answer is unwavering. I loved every song from Grannysmith in my early days of clubs, tequila and Rocky Street and I also you would have a story to share that reminds us just how incredible it is to live a dream. Everything you touch turns to your version of gold and it a joy to share you story! Mike, thank you for your time, honesty and a trip down memory lane that must be so bitter/sweet!

Here is my favourite Grannysmith song called Starlight.

Mike’s Project Me Story interview:

1. What is your definition of happiness?
Happiness is living in the moment. Living in the present. I believe there are two ways to live your life. You can have a life of “meaning” – which requires you to dwell on the past and the future. This rarely brings happiness. The other is to keep your thoughts on right now. Be happy for who you are, your family and friends and the other blessing in your life.

2. If you could have everyone say one thing to themselves every day, what would it be?
Never give up on your dreams. They are always attainable, as long as you keep trying to reach them.

3. We all need someone to believe in us. Who is that person for you and why?
I’ve never needed anyone to believe in me. I’ve always done things my own way. I’ve always looked to myself for belief.

4. What quality do you believe we can never be taught because it is our birth right?
To love

5. Describe the moment when you realised that you could achieve anything?
The moment I truly believed that I could achieve my dreams, was the night our band won the battle of the bands at Roxy Rhythm Bar back in 1998. I can clearly remember the feeling on stage. The crowd was going ballistic. The whole place was just buzzing. I could literally feel the energy in the room. Every pull on my guitar string was connected in some way to the people there. It was like we were all connected by this invisible force. And we were controlling that. Its an unbelievable feeling.

6. What have you always dreamed of being or doing and have you reached that dream?
Since I was about fourteen years old, I dreamed of being a musician. Performing on stage. Going on tours and living the life of a professional musician. I pursued this dream until we signed a record deal with Sony BMG in 1999. I really believed that was the start of big things. But being a pro musician in South Africa is very tough. There isn’t a big enough market. I still had to do part-time jobs to survive. And in the end we could not keep going. So I guess I did not reach the heights of the dream. However, this failure could have been overcome. I could have achieved my dream. As a band/team we weren’t all moving in the same direction. And that was the biggest stumbling block. When your dream depends entirely on the co-operation of others, things can go wrong.

7. When life gets in the way, what do you always remind yourself of?
Life is life. Its part of the journey. It cant be avoided.  Just try to find a balance. Every little thing we do or experience, has value. It makes us who we are.

8. We all have something unique to offer the world, what is yours?
My point of view. But most people are only interested in their own, so it is of very little use to the world.

9. How do you deal with the fears that could potentially hold you back?
To quote Waynes World: “Live in the now” – You can’t change the past and the future hasn’t happened yet, so why worry about it.  Do your best everyday.

10. What do you believe we have lost sight of in the world as a whole?
Empathy.

Mike is bringing awareness to: South African Guide Dog Association

The South African Guide-Dogs Association for the Blind was founded in 1953 by Gladys Evans and a temporary training centre was rented at No 1, Glamorgan Road, Parkwood.after she returned from England with her famous guide dog, Sheena.

SAGA’s first real home was a lovely 6 acre property called “Vale Cottage” in Parkmore, Sandton which was established in 1958. Vale Cottage was later renamed “The Gladys Evans Training Centre” and was to remain the home of SAGA until 1986 when, due to the increased demand for guide dogs, the new “Gladys Evans Training Centre” was opened in Wroxham Road, Witkoppen.

This 11 acre property today boasts all the facilities required to train both guide dogs and their blind owners.

It’s interesting to note that in the long history of SAGA only 4 people have headed the Association. They are Michael Bibikoff (1955 to 1959), Lionel Wilson (1959 to 1969), Ken Lord (1969 to 2004) and Malcolm Driver (2004 to the present time).

To donate, sponsor a puppy or guide dog and find out the many ways you can support this vital cause, please visit the SAGA website.



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